Navigating sex, intimacy, and relationships can be complicated!!! Especially in a world that isn’t always built for the way you love, desire, or identify.
As a kink-, queer-, and non-monogamy-affirming sex therapist, I provide a safe, non-judgmental, and culturally responsive space to explore what’s going on, work through friction, and build a more fulfilling relationship with yourself and your partners.
If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, judged, or turned away by mainstream therapists, you are in the right place.
Who I Serve:
I proudly work with individuals, couples, and relationship structures of all shapes and sizes. My practice is deeply rooted in community and liberation and decolonial practices, with a special focus on:
- QTBIPOC Folks: I love serving my QTBIPOC community and hold space for the intersections of race, culture, gender, and sexuality.
- Non-Monogamous & Poly Relationships: Whether you’re exploring open dynamics for the first time, negotiating agreements, or working through jealousy and communication hiccups.
- The Kink & BDSM Community & People in the Lifestyle: Full acceptance of your desires, play, and dynamics without needing to educate me on the basics.
What We Can Work On Together
Sex and relationship challenges happen! Even in the most loving and self-aware dynamics you are bound to hit a few bumps. I specialize in addressing issues that many practitioners shy away from or misdiagnose:
1. “Out-of-Control” Sexual Behavior & Porn/Sex “Addiction”
If you feel like your sexual behavior or porn use is out of control, I am your guy.
My Approach: I do not operate from a shame-based addiction model, nor will I simply tell you to abstain. Instead, we’ll look under the hood. Together, we’ll analyze your experiences, clarify your true goals, and build a healthy, fulfilling balance that works for you, your partners, and your overall relationship with sex.
2. Vaginismus, Pelvic Pain, ED
Sex shouldn’t hurt. I work with folks experiencing pelvic pain, vaginismus, and penetration difficulties to help untangle the physical, emotional, and psychological layers at play, taking the pressure off and restoring pleasure at your pace.
3. Mismatched Desire
It’s completely normal for partners to have different sex drives, but it can create intense frustration and distance. We’ll look at how to bridge the gap without forcing anyone into unwanted intimacy or leaving anyone feeling rejected.
4. High-Conflict Couples & Dynamic Relational Struggles
Have other therapists turned you away or told you your relationship is “too chaotic” or unconventional? I don’t shy away from intensity. I help high-conflict partners break negative cycles, communicate through heat, and find real alignment.
Ready to Work Together?
You don’t have to shrink, hide parts of yourself, or translate your lifestyle to get good care. Whether you are looking to heal pain, recalibrate your sex life, or strengthen your relationships, I’m here to walk that path with you.
Book a free consult here
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